"Feelings do not accurately reflect the safe-danger equation. ...This may be hard to fully grasp, but what a person has in mind is limited to the mind. It may accurately match reality, or it may not. In any case, what is in mind does not have any effect on reality. So, if you are flying, and feeling fearful as a result of this accident, that fear and reality may have no connection."

Thanks for your most recent e-mail. It did a lot to help ease my anxiety. I have to keep reminding myself that my feelings may not reflect reality and that my fears certainly do not reflect reality in terms of airline safety. My sister is visiting and she is constantly looking for "omens". She's driving me nuts. I'm trying to keep my mind focused on reality and and not on my imaginings. Your words of encouragement really help. Hopefully, when I fly on the 20th, I'll be able to focus on the "what is" not the "what if"