One of the things that unnerve me about flying is when the flight experience departs from my mental model of what a particular flight or route should "be like" or experience things that make me wonder what the pilot is thinking or trying to do ("I wouldn't do this if I were flying the plane!").
For example, I am pretty unnerved by sharp banks, especially when a sharp bank to one side is followed by another sharp bank to the other side. I can't understand what the pilot is trying to do - why are they turning so sharply instead of doing a nice easy turn? Why do they turn first one way, then the other so sharply...are they being sloppy in their turns? are they trying to lose airspeed?
It's especially disturbing on landing...last night, I was flying home on a night flight and on approach the pilot did what seemed to be a very sharp turn (I know it may feel sharper than it is) while we seemed to be descending quickly...and then loudly popped out the landing gear just at the same time, then sharply turned the other way.
I was terrified, and I still don't understand why the pilot would do that...after doing those two sharp banks, we leveled off on approach we were still about 5 minutes from landing...if trying to bleed speed, could he not have done that on the last part of the approach?
This "second guessing the pilot" stuff is becoming more of an issue because I keep flying one particular route every couple of weeks and I memorize landmarks and such, and there's parts of the flight I "expect", and when I don't see or feel the parts I expect I get distressed.
It doesn't help that it's an ERJ-145. I took SOAR a while ago (admittedly I haven't practiced the strengthening exercise in a long time), and I had gotten used to the "feel" of MD80s and 757s, but am now flying on different routes, airlines, and planes, and am having trouble regaining the level of confidence that I had before.



